communication

I really hate it when people don't tell you what they are thinking. Especially if you are asking them for an honest opinion. Or they talk to a third person about an issue with you instead of going directly to the source. Case in point, someone was trying to get some papers from me that needed to be turned in last month. So does she call me, email me, try to contact me in any way? NO! She goes to my friend instead and drops the info that I haven't turned in the papers. So then I get told a week later by this friend that I need to get my ass in gear. Wouldn't it have been easier to get a hold of me directly? She could have had her stuff that much sooner. So my passive-agressive self decided to wait and see if the woman would ever contact me directly. She finally did today and I had those papers in her hot little hand with in two hours of her call. See how easy that was? She could have had them last week but she had to go and tell someone else first. What a pisser!